Monthly Archives: May 2016

The Nature Of My Reality

I had an interesting experience the other day. I was talking with someone and they interrupted me to say “Your hair looks different today, what’s the occasion?” I stopped mid sentence and said that it was the same as I normally do it. I even went and looked into a mirror to see if something was different and it wasn’t.

It got me thinking about reality and our perceptions of what is around us. When we look at something are we all seeing the same thing?

We all see what we expect to see, not what is actually there. What is actually there is a lot of energy and vibration that forms into the things we see. It is our perception of how things are supposed to be that forms the reality around us. If you expect to see something horrible that is what you will see, but then someone with a more positive energy will see something not so bad at all. It’s all in what we expect.

Our thoughts really do become things. I look at the world around me and see some beautiful things and some not so beautiful things. I read passages that people write about certain things or places and fail to see what they see.

I have always preferred to read a book rather than or before I see a movie of that book. What I see as I read the words never matches up to what appears on the screen. Sometimes I watch movies and think, that could have been so good, what were they thinking!

I have started to ask myself am I seeing the real world or am I seeing my interpretation of that world. I have decided that real is only real in the mind of each individual on this planet. We can stand next to someone and look at the same thing but we both will see something different. It may be the color, it may be the shape, it may actually even be the entire form. But no one else will see what I see because they are not me.

I have a friend online and when we chat I picture her energy a certain way, not what she looks like but her energy. Then when I see a picture of her I get a little freaked out. She does not look like, in my reality, what she feels like.

So does my energy feel different to what I look like? Yes absolutely even to myself. When I look in the mirror I see the shell. I don’t look like I want to look like and I don’t look like I feel like. Try it for yourselves. Stand in front of the mirror and close your eyes. Feel your energy, really feel it. How does it look to your closed eyes, what does it look like in your mind? Now open your eyes quickly and look at your reflection. Do they match? Do you look like you feel?

I know that when I go to work, people expect me to look a certain way, and when I change things about myself I get strange looks all day until they figure it out. some don’t figure it out. They do not see any of the changes I have made because in their reality they do not fit and they do not exist.

Maybe that is why people you have been connected to can slowly drift away from you. You stop being the you that you are in their eyes and that does not fit with their version of life. So they disappear as you make new friends and a new life. They stay behind in the reality they have created that you no longer fit into.

Makes me understand more the nature of manifestation. The more I feel the energy of what I want, the more that energy forms into my reality. All manifesting begins with a thought of what you want. That thought begins to grow and become a part of your reality until you look up one day and you are living that thought.

I know now that I can manipulate my reality to be what ever I choose it to be. My reality becomes what I feel inside, what I think inside and what I focus on inside.

Is your reality what you want it to be? If not, feel what you want it to be and allow it to become. It’s that simple. We as humans just make it harder because we feel like we have too. We feel unworthy if we don’t work hard for it. Well I have worked hard and still my reality stays at what I feel it to be, so now I will change my feelings and my thoughts and my outer reality will match my inner reality. Try it and see what you can achieve.

Margaret ❤


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Trust and Loyalty

When do you stop being loyal to people? do you wait, like I do, until it is so obvious that you are not required anymore? do you still, like I do, stay anyway and keep being loyal to people who clearly no longer wish to be apart of your life?

There is trust and there is being taken advantage of. where does one end and the other begin. It is a beautiful thing to show trust and to be loyal to others, but sometimes when that trust and loyalty is not returned it makes us feel less than.

For those of us prone to depression and low self esteem, things like this when they happen can be devastating. The trust we so freely give is thrown back in our faces with nothing more than a fleeting thought. We automatically think, what have I done?, where did I go wrong, why don’t they like me anymore? All of which is technically not our problem to worry about.

Allowing thoughts like these and others similar to not affect us is a huge task. something like climbing a mountain when you have no idea where the top is. To let is all just slip away and find the someone’s or something’s that resonate better with us is hard when all you do is think what is wrong with me?

What I have done over the last few weeks when I have felt abandoned and left out is to step back. Think about what is going on, what is there I can learn from this? Why am I concentrating on what I don’t want? What do I want?

Stepping back has allowed me to come to terms with what is going on around me. Not all of it is my concern, not all of it is to do with me. Yet I made it my business and allowed it to affect me in ways that I thought I had surpassed many times before. Thinking I am moving forward and getting the hang of this thing called life, only to slip back at the smallest doubt.

Sitting and moping only makes the mountain grow taller and stops me from doing what I want to do and what I would like to do. Instead of sitting and thinking why, this week I have decided I don’t care why! I will do what makes me feel good, what makes me feel happy and what makes my life better.

What I do is no ones business but mine and what other people think about that and how they choose to respond to that is not my business. I am getting on with this living business, making small steps forward and recognising much more quickly when things are going pear shaped.

I look in the mirror and tell myself, I have a lot to offer, I have things I wish to share with the world, I am important in my own way, I am beautiful in my own way and I will no longer allow others to take that away from me.

In the end my reality is what I make it. What I choose to see, have and do is not necessarily what others think is right for me, but it is not their choice, it is mine. I choose to be me. I choose to step out of line and begin living the way I choose to live. If some don’t like that, then that’s fine, bye bye, nice knowing you 🙂 And that I am finally fine with too.

We are here to live our own lives, not the life others choose for us. Remember that and make choices that make you feel good and make you feel happy. When I get to the end of this life I want to be happy that I have helped others but also that I was me, authentically me.

From now on, be you, as only you can be.

Margaret ❤


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The Blissful Moment of Understanding

The reasons for everything are clear to see, plainly in sight and before your eyes. You know this, you see this and still you fight every step of the way. Learn to let go, practice this in every waking moment and in every dreaming moment. Listen to your innermost thoughts they will not lead you astray. They are on point and thinking that maybe just maybe there is something better only blocks the guidance that you so dearly wish to receive from coming through.

Waiting for something better only extends your waiting. You wait so long that when it finally happens you do not see it, you are still waiting for that something better to appear. You get angry, you get upset because things are not going the way you want them to, but at every moment you are pushing away what you deeply want, and you moan and groan and complain that it’s not right, it’s not fair. When all along you are blocking yourself from the beauty of your own life.

How do you feel when you accomplish something? Elated, overjoyed, happy? Why then would you push away those things that bring those emotions to you? Do you not wish to live in joy and peace always? All you do is perfection, whether you realise it or not. Focus on those emotions of joy and love allow those feelings to be at the center of your heart and your life.

Life is not meant to be taken so literally that every step must be perfect. Every step is already perfect regardless of what it is. Trust is what makes those steps perfection. Trust that things will go the right way, trust that what you feel, hear and see is right for you. You will feel the truth in your heart, truth is always beautiful, truth is always calm, truth is always ready to reveal itself if only you open your heart to it.

Open your physical eyes, open your inner eye, open your heart. We are here for you in all ways and at all times. You can push us away and decide to go it alone and that is your choice, but understand we will be here and waiting for you, whether you acknowledge us or not, to open and allow assistance, and then we will gladly give it.

Allow, for in this moment of newness you can achieve all your heart desires. Relax and calm yourself, stress only causes blockages not fluidness. Be calm, steady, aware and awake, and open to all that you are and all that you can and will be.

Invite your purpose into your life, into your heart, into your space and allow it to expand and envelop all around you. We await your questions, we await your requests. We await with honor and love for that moment of recognition that you are you and that is all you have to be.

There is much we wish to share with you and as you open and allow we shall communicate on these things. For now, rest, heal and expect. Blissful moments await you in your understanding. We await with great joy and great love your acceptance of who and what you are. We await the moment of joining, the moment of pure loving acceptance, the moment of undeniable understanding.

Margaret ❤


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